The Ultimate Thanksgiving Dinner Planning Guide: Ideas, Recipes, and More!

Planning Thanksgiving dinner can be stressful – but it doesn’t have to be! Here are a few tips for planning your Thanksgiving dinner – along with tons of delicious recipes!

When the weather is getting cooler and you need to turn on the heater in your home, fall season is in the air! Which also means the holiday season is about to warm the hearts of people everywhere. It also means that Thanksgiving is right around the corner and the whole family will be gathered together to eat traditional Thanksgiving food that everyone knows and loves.

If you are feeling overwhelmed with hosting Thanksgiving, or if you don’t even know where to start, this Thanksgiving Dinner Planning Guide will give you some good advice as well as delicious recipes to make sure that you have the best Thanksgiving dinner.

The first part of this guide includes tips and tricks to help minimize holiday stress. A list of meal ideas with links to recipes will follow afterwards.

Table of contents

Tips and Tricks for a Low-Stress Thanskgiving
How Much Per Person?
Main Dishes
Side Dishes
Desserts

Tips and Tricks for a Low-Stress Thanksgiving

Let’s face it, there is a lot of pressure in hosting a Thanksgiving dinner. Worrying about the house being clean, messy kitchens, unhappy guests, crazy kids running around and a myriad of other things can get you on the verge of a nervous breakdown. But it doesn’t have to be that way. Taking everything in little by little each day leading up to Thanksgiving and allowing others to help you can make your holiday much more enjoyable as it should be.

How can you feel less stress this Thanksgiving?

Start preparing early

If you know you will be hosting this year’s Thanksgiving celebrations, you need to prepare as early as you can. Find out how many people will be there and determine what you need to take care of them. Do you have enough room in your house? Will you need to find some extra tables or chairs? Taking care of these issues a few weeks before the event will save you a bunch of time and worrying in the long run.

Figure out who will be going

Having a guest list a couple weeks before Thanksgiving will give you a head start on meal prep. You can determine how much food you will need to prepare, how many children will be there (because we know they don’t like everything the adults eat) and what kind of dishes you should prepare. If some of your guests have special dietary needs like allergies, you can plan for that instead of panicking the day of.

Don’t be afraid to ASK FOR HELP

Be honest to yourself. You don’t want to do all the heavy lifting when it comes to Thanksgiving. Delegation is key to a low stress Thanksgiving. When you have your guest list figured out, determine who can help cook some dishes and ask them to help. If they are comfortable doing so, they will do it. Ask your immediate family members to help tidy up the house so that you can focus on cooking. Thanksgiving is a community holiday; people are ready and willing to help you, you just need to ask.

Plan out a menu and make a shopping list

Planning out a menu a few weeks before the event is a Thanksgiving dinner must-have. Are you unsure about what kind of dishes to have? The end of this post have a wide variety of recipes that you can use, including main dishes, side dishes and desserts. Once you have your menu planned out, write down a shopping list so that you can be ready for the big day.

Shop early to reduce last-minute shopping

This is a big one. Separate your shopping list into non-perishables (or items that won’t expire before Thanksgiving) and fresh items (or last-minute perishables). Shop for the non-perishables about a week before Thanksgiving, then when it gets closer, shop for the fresh items.

You will end up doing most of your shopping before the hoards of people invade all of the Thanksgiving ingredients and your panic levels skyrocket. Instead, you’ll have a small list of groceries and if you happen to forget anything, you can quickly grab what you need and leave without worrying about a long list. This tip will save you tons of stress and worry.

Take it one step at a time

Since Thanksgiving is such a big holiday, your mind will tend to be 20 places at once, causing a huge amount of stress on you. Slow down, take a breath, and tackle each task one at a time. Prioritize your tasks and leave time for some breaks. If you start to panic, don’t be afraid to ask for help. Before you know it, your tasks will be completed.

Consider Buying Parts of the Meal

There is no rule that says EVERY part of Thanksgiving dinner has to be homemade – in fact, there’s no rule that says any of it does.

Chances are, if you’re reading this post – you probably are wanting to make some of it yourself (and we have lots of great recipes!). However, there are many things that you can buy to make it easier.

Hate making rolls? Buy them from the local bakery or at the store. Can’t seem to get the turkey or ham right? Head to Boston Market or Honey Baked Ham!

And let me tell you – I love Marie Callander frozen pies! If you are feeling overwhelmed, look at the meal you have planned and decide what things you’d be okay buying.

Rastelli’s has some really awesome side dishes that you can order for Thanksgiving!

Don’t forget to ENJOY the holiday with your loved ones

All too often, the commotion of preparation and execution cause us to forget the real reason that we gather together; to enjoy each other’s company and to feel gratitude and love. The host needs to remember that. At the end of the day, the most memorable part of the holiday will be the time that is spent with your loved ones. Step out of the kitchen and enjoy the people that came to Thanksgiving. Remember the reason for the celebration.

These tips will help you enjoy Thanksgiving with your loved ones more without the stress that naturally comes from hosting parties. Try them the next time you host Thanksgiving at your home.

How Much Per Person?

One of the hardest parts of planning Thanksgiving dinner is knowing how much food to plan for!

For the main dish (whether it be turkey or ham), general advice is about 1.5 pounds per person. However, that’s assuming all your guests are adults! In my experience, children don’t eat nearly that much, so I usually try and assume about 1 lb per person if you have a good mixture of adults and children, and it usually evens out.

And who doesn’t love leftovers?!

For a turkey, it’s generally recommended to have:

6-7 lbs for five people
10-14 lbs for 10 people
24-28 lbs for 20 people

When it comes to sides, it gets a little tricky. I see some resources that say if you have five people, you only need one side dish. I don’t know about you, but I’ve never been to any Thanksgiving dinner where there is just one side dish!

I would recommend having about 1 cup per side per adult, and 1/2 cup for children. Plan on two rolls per person – some will eat none, others will eat four. Gravy is generally about 1/2 cup per person.

When it comes to desserts, plan on two slices of whatever you are serving for each person.

Thanksgiving Dinner Dish Ideas

Main Dishes

The pride of the dinner table on Thanksgiving is definitely the turkey! Besides turkey, there are some key staples like mashed potatoes, stuffing, and don’t forget the gravy!

Turkey

Cornish Hens

Ham

Side Dishes

You can’t forget the side dishes! Some of my favorite Thanksgiving foods are side dishes. They bring so much flavor and fun to any meal.

Obviously, this is our specialty 🙂

Mashed Potatoes

Potato Alternatives

Stuffing/Dressing

Gravy

Rolls

Cornbread

Fruit and Vegetable Dishes (casseroles and more)

Macaroni & Cheese

Thanksgiving Desserts

No Thanksgiving dinner is complete without desserts!

Pies and Cobblers

Jello Salad

Bread and Bread Pudding

Other Tasty Desserts

We hope that this guide will make your Thanksgiving dinner easier than ever to plan!